Fox News posted an article today about how American women have become so obnoxious and power-hungry that men no longer want to marry. AWD has been saying this for four years. Too many American women are monsters! And who wants to be married to a monster who will make your life miserable and then screw you for life in divorce. Apparently, fewer American males each year!
The article, titled “The War on Men” by Susan Venker says:
As the author of three books on the American family and its intersection with pop culture, I’ve spent thirteen years examining social agendas as they pertain to sex, parenting, and gender roles. During this time, I’ve spoken with hundreds, if not thousands, of men and women. And in doing so, I’ve accidentally stumbled upon a subculture of men who’ve told me, in no uncertain terms, that they’re never getting married. When I ask them why, the answer is always the same.
Women aren’t women anymore.
She’s right. Many American women are now men. They’ve been trained their entire lives to dislike and mistreat men. Traditional American gender roles have been ridiculed since the 70’s and the advent of the feminist movement. Little girls go to school wearing “Boys are Stupid” t shirts and it’s all so funny. A little boy wearing a shirt disparaging females would be disciplined. Girls are taught to seek a career instead of motherhood and that white men are the root cause of everything wrong in the world. Of course, the government has helped create this monster as it now takes at least one working parent to pay taxes. So women seek their careers at the expense of family and then wonder why they’re alone and angry at 50. Career ladies, that cool BMW won’t come visit you when you’re old. And who among us hasn’t had a female boss that was a total a**hole? I have. For some reason, many women believe they have to be total b*tches to be successful in the workplace.
To say gender relations have changed dramatically is an understatement. Ever since the sexual revolution, there has been a profound overhaul in the way men and women interact. Men haven’t changed much – they had no revolution that demanded it – but women have changed dramatically.
In a nutshell, women are angry. They’re also defensive, though often unknowingly. That’s because they’ve been raised to think of men as the enemy. Armed with this new attitude, women pushed men off their pedestal (women had their own pedestal, but feminists convinced them otherwise) and climbed up to take what they were taught to believe was rightfully theirs.
She’s right! Too many American women are just plain mean-spirited. They are not feminine and kind and cannot be satisfied. They are angry because the feminist teachings they’ve been force fed are lies. They have been taught they are always right and the man is always wrong. No matter what. What a recipe for disaster…for the man!
The media also makes fathers and men look like morons. Men smart enough to provide nice homes in TV programs and commercials are too shown to be too stupid to light a grill without blowing himself up. AWD has an entire section of this website dedicated to Male Bashing Commercials. Pop culture has made the wife or mom the authority figure while the father or man is the butt of jokes.
Young men have been warned by their fathers or seen with their own eyes the disparity of divorce courts. Most men are FFL (f’ed for life) after the marriage ends. They will have zero chance at gaining custody of their children and will be saddled by huge child support payments and possibly alimony for years. Even if they are not at fault for the marriage ending.
Venker hits it on the head with this:
It is precisely this dynamic – women good/men bad – that has destroyed the relationship between the sexes. Yet somehow, men are still to blame when love goes awry. Heck, men have been to blame since feminists first took to the streets in the 1970s.
But what if the dearth of good men, and ongoing battle of the sexes, is – hold on to your seats – women’s fault?
You’ll never hear that in the media. All the articles and books (and television programs, for that matter) put women front and center, while men and children sit in the back seat. But after decades of browbeating the American male, men are tired. Tired of being told there’s something fundamentally wrong with them. Tired of being told that if women aren’t happy, it’s men’s fault.
Any guy who has been married to one of these monster women never forgets and never goes back to living the horrible roller-coaster of misery he once suffered. Many married men simply give up trying to please their wives as they simply cannot be pleased! If they have children, they hand over their balls and live a quiet life of desperation. If they divorce, they never go back to a woman who will wreck his life.
AWD has friends who cannot go to the bathroom without permission from their wives. We even sadly joke about it. But they have surrendered their balls long ago and aren’t willing to go to war to get them back. AWD understands because I once lived that horrible life. As I drove away from my home and children (moving out from my children was the single hardest thing I ever have done and it pains me greatly to this day) to escape the misery, I made a silent promise to myself that I have kept to this day: “I will never ever again let a woman kick my ass.” I’m not a bad man. In fact, I’m better than a lot and a good dad to my children. I have been alone and I have been miserable. I have never been alone and miserable.
Young men are confused as to who they are these days. I believe that’s why we see so many metrosexual types and girly men among our youth. They don’t know what it is to be men. They want to be what they have been told to be in modern culture…friends of women. They want to please women and they’ve been told they must be feminine, dress like fruitcakes and not do any of the things normally associated with traditional American men to be acceptable to females. They’ve been told they and their dads are stupid idiots their entire lives and believe it. They’ve been blamed for every wrong in the world being white males. They’ve probably seen their mothers rule the roost and the dad capitulate rather than risk elevating the anger of his insufferable wife.
One of the worst sayings in the American lexicon is “if mama’s not happy, nobody’s happy.” Why should mama have the control of making everyone’s lives miserable because she’s just an insufferable, controlling, angry bitch? Screw that! Who needs it? Not the man nor the kids.
The female monsters created by American culture have young men avoiding marriage and divorced men looking overseas to find their next wives. They look for women who are comfortable being women. Latin and Asian women are more like our mothers. They care for their husbands and family and don’t generally want to work outside of the home. There are clear lines of responsibility in the family and everyone plays their roles. It worked for our parents, it seems to work for us.
Venker finishes with:
It’s all so unfortunate – for women, not men. Feminism serves men very well: they can have sex at hello and even live with their girlfriends with no responsibilities whatsoever.
It’s the women who lose. Not only are they saddled with the consequences of sex, by dismissing male nature they’re forever seeking a balanced life. The fact is, women need men’s linear career goals – they need men to pick up the slack at the office – in order to live the balanced life they seek.
So if men today are slackers, and if they’re retreating from marriage en masse, women should look in the mirror and ask themselves what role they’ve played to bring about this transformation.
Fortunately, there is good news: women have the power to turn everything around. All they have to do is surrender to their nature – their femininity – and let men surrender to theirs.
If they do, marriageable men will come out of the woodwork.
American women have bought the false propaganda of liberal feminists. And like all things liberal, it destroys everything and women are suffering. Women aren’t meant to be men and men aren’t meant to be women. But liberal claptrap philosophy tells us that is exactly the way to find happiness. Men are oppressors and women must take control. But most men aren’t oppressors, they are only looking for a good, kind mate who will treat them with kindness, love and respect.
Unless a young man has a religious belief about not having sex outside of marriage or is determined to have children, I would not recommend him getting married to an American woman unless she is drastically different from her American female monster sisters. It simply isn’t worth the risk. If they must marry, I recommend waiting to see if his wife turns into a monster before having children.
I know there are good girls and women who have not fallen to the liberal feminist lies. But only because of good parenting have they avoided that pit of misery. I also realize a lot of women have to work to make ends meet and I do not include you in this commentary if you have a good man and treat him with love and respect. But you know exactly the type of woman I am criticizing here. I’m also not saying there aren’t bad men. There are plenty. But it’s sad that so many good men and fathers are so mistreated by mean, angry women in this country. It’s no wonder why men avoid marriage!
Here’s a perfect example of some of the things I am talking about. How’d you like to live with this peach?
Here’s one that puts me in jail: