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WOMEN STILL WANT MARRIAGE – MEN, NOT SO MUCH!!

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Fox News posted an article today about how American women have become so obnoxious and power-hungry that men no longer want to marry. AWD has been saying this for four years. Too many American women are monsters! And who wants to be married to a monster who will make your life miserable and then screw you for life in divorce. Apparently, fewer American males each year!

The article, titled “The War on Men” by Susan Venker says:

As the author of three books on the American family and its intersection with pop culture, I’ve spent thirteen years examining social agendas as they pertain to sex, parenting, and gender roles. During this time, I’ve spoken with hundreds, if not thousands, of men and women. And in doing so, I’ve accidentally stumbled upon a subculture of men who’ve told me, in no uncertain terms, that they’re never getting married. When I ask them why, the answer is always the same.

Women aren’t women anymore.

She’s right. Many American women are now men. They’ve been trained their entire lives to dislike and mistreat men. Traditional American gender roles have been ridiculed since the 70’s and the advent of the feminist movement. Little girls go to school wearing “Boys are Stupid” t shirts and it’s all so funny. A little boy wearing a shirt disparaging females would be disciplined. Girls are taught to seek a career instead of motherhood and that white men are the root cause of everything wrong in the world. Of course, the government has helped create this monster as it now takes at least one working parent to pay taxes. So women seek their careers at the expense of family and then wonder why they’re alone and angry at 50. Career ladies, that cool BMW won’t come visit you when you’re old. And who among us hasn’t had a female boss that was a total a**hole? I have. For some reason, many women believe they have to be total b*tches to be successful in the workplace.

Venker continues:

To say gender relations have changed dramatically is an understatement. Ever since the sexual revolution, there has been a profound overhaul in the way men and women interact. Men haven’t changed much – they had no revolution that demanded it – but women have changed dramatically.

In a nutshell, women are angry. They’re also defensive, though often unknowingly. That’s because they’ve been raised to think of men as the enemy. Armed with this new attitude, women pushed men off their pedestal (women had their own pedestal, but feminists convinced them otherwise) and climbed up to take what they were taught to believe was rightfully theirs.

She’s right! Too many American women are just plain mean-spirited. They are not feminine and kind and cannot be satisfied. They are angry because the feminist teachings they’ve been force fed are lies. They have been taught they are always right and the man is always wrong. No matter what. What a recipe for disaster…for the man!

The media also makes fathers and men look like morons. Men smart enough to provide nice homes in TV programs and commercials are too shown to be too stupid to light a grill without blowing himself up. AWD has an entire section of this website dedicated to Male Bashing Commercials. Pop culture has made the wife or mom the authority figure while the father or man is the butt of jokes.

Young men have been warned by their fathers or seen with their own eyes the disparity of divorce courts. Most men are FFL (f’ed for life) after the marriage ends. They will have zero chance at gaining custody of their children and will be saddled by huge child support payments and possibly alimony for years. Even if they are not at fault for the marriage ending.

Venker hits it on the head with this:

It is precisely this dynamic – women good/men bad – that has destroyed the relationship between the sexes. Yet somehow, men are still to blame when love goes awry. Heck, men have been to blame since feminists first took to the streets in the 1970s.

But what if the dearth of good men, and ongoing battle of the sexes, is – hold on to your seats – women’s fault?

You’ll never hear that in the media. All the articles and books (and television programs, for that matter) put women front and center, while men and children sit in the back seat. But after decades of browbeating the American male, men are tired. Tired of being told there’s something fundamentally wrong with them. Tired of being told that if women aren’t happy, it’s men’s fault.

Any guy who has been married to one of these monster women never forgets and never goes back to living the horrible roller-coaster of misery he once suffered. Many married men simply give up trying to please their wives as they simply cannot be pleased! If they have children, they hand over their balls and live a quiet life of desperation. If they divorce, they never go back to a woman who will wreck his life.

AWD has friends who cannot go to the bathroom without permission from their wives. We even sadly joke about it. But they have surrendered their balls long ago and aren’t willing to go to war to get them back. AWD understands because I once lived that horrible life. As I drove away from my home and children (moving out from my children was the single hardest thing I ever have done and it pains me greatly to this day) to escape the misery, I made a silent promise to myself that I have kept to this day: “I will never ever again let a woman kick my ass.” I’m not a bad man. In fact, I’m better than a lot and a good dad to my children. I have been alone and I have been miserable. I have never been alone and miserable.

Young men are confused as to who they are these days. I believe that’s why we see so many metrosexual types and girly men among our youth. They don’t know what it is to be men. They want to be what they have been told to be in modern culture…friends of women. They want to please women and they’ve been told they must be feminine, dress like fruitcakes and not do any of the things normally associated with traditional American men to be acceptable to females. They’ve been told they and their dads are stupid idiots their entire lives and believe it. They’ve been blamed for every wrong in the world being white males. They’ve probably seen their mothers rule the roost and the dad capitulate rather than risk elevating the anger of his insufferable wife.

One of the worst sayings in the American lexicon is “if mama’s not happy, nobody’s happy.” Why should mama have the control of making everyone’s lives miserable because she’s just an insufferable, controlling, angry bitch? Screw that! Who needs it? Not the man nor the kids.

The female monsters created by American culture have young men avoiding marriage and divorced men looking overseas to find their next wives. They look for women who are comfortable being women. Latin and Asian women are more like our mothers. They care for their husbands and family and don’t generally want to work outside of the home. There are clear lines of responsibility in the family and everyone plays their roles. It worked for our parents, it seems to work for us.

Venker finishes with:

It’s all so unfortunate – for women, not men. Feminism serves men very well: they can have sex at hello and even live with their girlfriends with no responsibilities whatsoever.

It’s the women who lose. Not only are they saddled with the consequences of sex, by dismissing male nature they’re forever seeking a balanced life. The fact is, women need men’s linear career goals – they need men to pick up the slack at the office – in order to live the balanced life they seek.

So if men today are slackers, and if they’re retreating from marriage en masse, women should look in the mirror and ask themselves what role they’ve played to bring about this transformation.

Fortunately, there is good news: women have the power to turn everything around. All they have to do is surrender to their nature – their femininity – and let men surrender to theirs.

If they do, marriageable men will come out of the woodwork.

American women have bought the false propaganda of liberal feminists. And like all things liberal, it destroys everything and women are suffering. Women aren’t meant to be men and men aren’t meant to be women. But liberal claptrap philosophy tells us that is exactly the way to find happiness. Men are oppressors and women must take control. But most men aren’t oppressors, they are only looking for a good, kind mate who will treat them with kindness, love and respect.

Unless a young man has a religious belief about not having sex outside of marriage or is determined to have children, I would not recommend him getting married to an American woman unless she is drastically different from her American female monster sisters. It simply isn’t worth the risk. If they must marry, I recommend waiting to see if his wife turns into a monster before having children.

I know there are good girls and women who have not fallen to the liberal feminist lies. But only because of good parenting have they avoided that pit of misery. I also realize a lot of women have to work to make ends meet and I do not include you in this commentary if you have a good man and treat him with love and respect. But you know exactly the type of woman I am criticizing here. I’m also not saying there aren’t bad men. There are plenty. But it’s sad that so many good men and fathers are so mistreated by mean, angry women in this country. It’s no wonder why men avoid marriage!

Here’s a perfect example of some of the things I am talking about. How’d you like to live with this peach?

Here’s another to remind us that America would be nothing but Dorito eating fools provided by the centuries of hard labor in the work force by women.

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34 Comments

  1. Liberalism is evil. It was a concept formed to ruing the US and the building blocks of he country: namely the families. Women have fallen for feminism because at first,…it masqueraded as just a group who wanted women to have more job opportunities and to get equal pay for equal work. Then these feminist groups started adding on more and more grievances and stupid demands and most of them were run by men-hating Lesbians. Feminism began blaming everything on men but on mainly white men. I do not see the amount of hate toward blacks nor even toward women -hating Muslims as I do for the white man. This shows feminism is just a racist vehicle to attack the builders and doers of the nation. White men still run the nation . We do have a little black man for president and look what a mess he has done. White men are the target of feminism and do not forget that.

  2. Disgusted Caucasian

    I hate my ex wife way more than I hate Obama. Can you imagine what she did to me to make me hate her that much??

  3. Well as a woman AWD, here’s something you need to know: women love men. For being men.

    Millions of women, myself included, celebrate you guys for being dudes. We may joke about how you annoy us with your one-thing-at-a-time focus, but we love that too. Life is simpler and better with you in it. We love how you say what you mean. You’re uncomplicated, straightforward, and easy to talk to. And we usually don’t have to issue disclaimers before we do speak with you…so thanks for that.

    We appreciate that you want to protect women. Despite what all the feminists say, millions of us know you care for women. We know you would pound a punk into the ground if he tried messing with us. We know you love your children and want to protect them. We know you want to call your daughters “princesses,” and you’re not being patriarchal when you do.

    We celebrate your ambition. One of my favorite qualities in a man is his drive to be his best. He likes to take risks because he likes to push his limits and test his strength. He likes to be challenged both in his career and in his personal pursuits. Every day he is working to better himself to be a greater man than he was before.

    We love your competitive drive. Women might mock you for needing to “out do” the other guys, but *this* woman at least, enjoys it. What’s life without a little competition? Thanks for the sarcastic back and forth, for trying to one-up your buddy at the gym. Rock on. We’ll watch and cheer you on.

    We love your self-deprecating humor and how you want to make us laugh. This one should be self-evident, but sadly it’s not. Even when we don’t want to be cheered up, you still try. You’re a soldier who loves his woman. Even if your woman gives you “the look” I’d like to think that deep down she’s not plotting to smother you with a pillow when you snore; she’s appreciating your good humor. Okay, maybe she wishes you didn’t snore so much. Hey, she’s human, too.

    Oh SJWs, give it a rest. Are all men like the ones I’m describing? No. But a lot of men are, and not everything is about you and your micro-agressions and fat-shaming. Stop taking up all the attention, this shouldn’t be about you.

    Ahem.

    We love how you pursue us when you like us, and we like you. Three feminist’s brains just exploded right there. Yes, men, we LIKE IT when you call us. We like it when you show us how much you care for us by actively pursuing us, even when you have us (7 more feminist brains have exploded). We like it when you open the door and treat us like queens. We like it when you make the plans, when you have direction.

    So guys, when you’re constantly feeling bitch-slapped by the loud, modern feminists for “man-spreading,” or whatever other new term they’re going to pull out of their uptight butts, know that millions of women cherish you for exactly who you are: Men. The world is a better place with men in it. Yes. I WROTE THAT. Millions of us support you. We support your careers. We support your choices. We love you for being masculine, and we celebrate you for it.

    Now go chop some wood and make us a fire.

    • Jenna, thank you. Well said from a filly perspective. Now quit yapping and bake us a pie! 😉

      awd

    • Yassine louisa

      Hello if you looking for a funny and smart guy to get married I’m here.

    • Quote: “So guys, when you’re constantly feeling bitch-slapped by the loud, modern feminists for “man-spreading,” or whatever other new term they’re going to pull out of their uptight butts, know that millions of women cherish you for exactly who you are: Men.”

      Until she reads ’50 Shades of Gray’ and decides she wants a more abusive man, has an affair, files for divorce, gets the house, car kids and alimony. ALL women are emotional time bombs that claim they won’t go off… until they go off. And that won’t change until the marriage laws change. Until then, a man isn’t just marrying a woman; he’s marrying the state, the federal government and the media, all of which hate the man.

      And please don’t pull the “but not all women are feminsts” line. Women have stood by and accepted the benefits of feminism the same way an indifferent cop accepts a bribe from a crooked city council they know is guilty.

  4. FishEagle

    Some of us women didn’t get good parenting yet we have conservative values. In my case I’m indebted to Ayn Rand for giving me a good foundation. The internet does the rest.

    From experience American men are scared that complain about women’s influence over them. Maybe you need your own version of Ayn Rand (with her flaws and all)?

    But seriously, is this blog like a safe space for men?

    Look, just because I have conservative values it doesn’t mean as a woman I won’t criticize men. Men and women are at war with one another just like any other identity group because we are individuals, FIRST. We are all fighting for a better life for ourselves. Somehow it seems that Americans – men and women – forget that we can enjoy the battle and even learn to love each other during the journey. Lose the social justice crusade.

  5. Quartierleblanc

    NO civilization has survived feminism. Ever. Somehow the libs think they can remake the world and violate mother nature in the process.

  6. I’m 55, never married, no kids. I came close to marriage twice, but both times the woman showed her true colors, and I was spared, even though my heart and ego were shredded. As a result, I was MGTOW before MGTOW was MGTOW, and as proof, last month I celebrated my 18th year as a voluntary celibate.

    Every interaction/relationship I have had with women has been filled with nothing but pain. They are never satisfied with what they have, all they seem to want is MORE, more money, more stuff,
    more attention, and to be constantly entertained. We would go out, and they would never dress for me, they would dress to get attention from other men (Always looking to ‘trade up’). I swear, it’s like a kid, ‘I want, I want , I want’, or ‘you never take me anywhere’ . Bitch bitch bitch, whine whine whine, nag nag nag, and I’m supposed to pay for it all, and my ‘reward’ is lackluster sex. Well, screw that.

    I kept touch with many High School friends, and EVERY last one of them has been married and divorced, some more than twice, and in every case, the male has been put through the wringer, their children used as weapons against them, their reputations ruined, their finances stolen by the courts to be given to the lazy ass ex, so she can live in the style that she has been accustomed to, the house, car etc., they even get to take half of his retirement and he has to pay the early withdrawal penalties and taxes. Most of the guys, instead of living in a house, live in 1 room apartments even though they have good paying jobs.

    The female friends I had who married and divorced, happily and openly talk about how they were thrilled to take their exes to the cleaners. I swear, it’s like seeing a cute bunny rabbit turn into a bloodthirsty monster. Luckily for me, I was able to learn from the mistakes of others, and not make the same mistakes.

    Because I woke up, I was able to keep my earnings and I was able to retire early, I live on 10 acres in a rural area, and my aging parents and younger brother all live on the same acreage in their own homes. I spend my days tending to my livestock, and my garden. When I want to have a change, I can hop on my ATV, ride through a gate, and I’m in a national forest where I can target shoot, hunt small game, and even prospect for gold.

    Now days, I enjoy the frustrations of women who know of my financial status, yet can’t understand why they can’t hook me when they dangle what to their eyes is irresistible bait. Their first inclination is to call me queer, even when they don’t have any proof, when they find out about my celibacy, they call me a misogynist. When I hear these accusations, I laugh, because they fail to understand that the only way to ensnare me is with bait that has become so rare as to be extinct; Femininity, pure and simple. A woman who conducts herself like a lady and who does not dress like she is for hire just to gain attention to sate her ego.

    No male reading this has to follow my example, it sure isn’t the easy way, or the only way. But it worked for me. And before you dudettes get your panties in a wad, and start screaming about how you’re different, know that I am aware that ‘not all women are like that’. However, good women are almost extinct, and the trouble of finding one is not worth the trouble or expense to me, not anymore.

    • JMV, you’re my hero!

      awd

      • AWD, your wisdom exceeds your height! I’m my hero too. 😉

        • JMV, my wisdom is that of a libtard! Been married multiple times. Yeah, I’m stupid!

          awd

          • S’ok AWD, we won’t hold against ya, as long as ya learned something.

            Seriously though, women are great, I love to watch them move, love the way they smell, love the way they look (some of them), the way they have of gently caressing your arm or the hairs on the back of your neck. When they are content, the light rustling sounds they make when moving around the room, or occasionally humming a tune, can give a man joy beyond comprehension. But, you can’t find a woman with all those qualities these days, or one willing to show those qualities, they are almost extinct, replaced by the hard faced, cold eyed, shrill voiced harpies who have been poisoned by feminism.

            I have made my choices, as hard as they were, and accepted the consequences, both good and bad, and I am ok with the results.

    • Joe Stalin

      An unemployed Black truck driver I know of talked about how much money he made, about the woman he had married, how she had a Masters degree and was making $85K, how he hated the “bitch,” how he was paying alimony for decades, and now, was living in a “shelter” temporarily — it’s even worst than what you say about your acquaintances living in a single room. About the only thing he could say positive was that he has two or three grown children out of it. No matter what Steve Sailer talks about how marriage is a stabilizing force, it appears to be a scam operation intended to trap men into paying and paying.

      I knew this one woman where I used to work who had a brother (late 30s). He married this older woman and was now divorcing her (no kids). He then married this 27 y/o Mexican woman who moved both her Mexican parents into their new house. Sounds like she manipulated him to support not just the wife, but her parents. And when they have children, it will mean he will be totally responsible for all of this.

      Another victim of “Make the man PAY for it all!”

    • FishEagle

      A woman with the same approach will never be seen as being a hero. We get treated as poor little victims. LOL. No way, enough with the victim hood! Please!

      How about some simple facts? When there are too many people life becomes tougher for both men and women. “Feminism is cancer”, like most present day political developments.

      It’s not going to be any different for men. Trump is not your daddy and change the world back to the nice place we used to know.

      Women don’t find happiness by taking their men to the cleaners, despite anything they say. I can’t believe you actually believe that.

      • Of course you can’t believe it, you’re a female, and the statement was made by a male. 😉

        • FishEagle

          OK, then I believe you and fully understand that you don’t want a woman in your life. I’m not going to try and understand it though 😉

    • Wow. Interesting. Good for you….

  7. Alexandra

    My husband left (and I want to reconcile with him). So I don’t feel guilty about him paying child support. I think that whatever spouse ditches should be the one paying support, whether it’s the husband or the wife.

    I believe marriage is for life. Not until someone gets bored. I still love my husband despite the hell I’ve gone through the past few years.

    That’s another thing I despise–no-fault divorce laws. Wasn’t it feminists that pushed for that? Way to go, now you’ve enabled men (as well as women) to be able to abandon their spouse because the grass looks greener somewhere else!

    • Insidious_Sid

      I think it’s great – we men now know what’s on the minds of women… to bail when things get a little difficult or a better deal comes along. That’s what my now-ex wife did. I don’t think she even wanted to get married and have kids, really. So, no-fault divorce is good because it’s shown us men women’s true colors. Sure, some men walk away from marriages too, but in 75% of cases the woman initiates divorce and usually her plans to leave are 1.5 to 2 years in the making. She sleeps in the same bed with the man while eloquently planning her exit. I laugh when women whine there are “no more good men” left to marry. The secret is out – marriage is a massive risk for men especially when children are involved. Men are connecting online and sharing their stories and experiences, and there is an entire movement of men who are walking away from marriage and relationships with women in general. Did feminism do this? Absolutely it did. And all women who sat by and LET feminists do this (because they thought it would benefit them, so why not?) are complicit in this problem. As for the men, we’re smart creatures. We do a cost benefit analysis of even love and marriage and can walk away even from some of the most powerful biological imperatives we have to face.

      • Sid, I read an interesting piece a few weeks ago. The author summarized by saying, “men don’t like women, we like p@@@y.” The piece said how guys would much prefer to hang out with buddies than their wife/girlfriend and only tolerate the drama women bring for physical enjoyment.

        Thoughts on this?

        awd

  8. Garrison Wamsat

    Come out of the woodwork? That would be……. no. Every woman could be an angel, a saint, she’d still be an emotional time bomb waiting to blow your whole life to bits. What’s more, you’re not just marrying a woman, your marrying the damn state and federal governments. And buddy, they aren’t on your side. You might as well have four mothers in law, because the fourth one is the media, always whispering in her ear how you’re no good/probably cheating/an idiot.

    No, marriage is fucked and is not coming back any generation soon.

  9. Marriage for men is a lose lose lose scenario. Lose your money and home, lose your wife, lose your kids. Until that changes no man should even consider marriage. It’s all for the women and nothing for the men. Live alone and let the women fend for themselves until they wake up.

  10. As a woman I can relate. I see very mean spirited women here and there in our society treating men very badly. With appalling behavior comes appalling looks. Insufferably over weight, tattoos everywhere, bad manners, no kindness or considerateness. Just nothing. It’s like watching a circus. I work as a volunteer in a huge busy hospital doing the information desk. We ladies have to ware a uniform, pins for identification and minimal jewelry for a clean look. I have been called an angel by lots of different people and treated like a lady by lots of different men. It makes a difference to everyone to be charitable. And, yes…I think some women need to be back-handed. Geez…what else can you do with them? When you say that men are scared to have any relationship with a women, I can understand it. But it is lonely for everyone. I’ll sign off here.

    • Sheri……

      a sign of the times……I see men who are nothing but wusses….in touch with their feminine side…..hell they might as well be women……….

      there was a time when men were men and women were women……it sure was a better time then than the nonsense that is going on now……….

      these days a lot of them don’t even know what sex they are…………

      • Yhea, I see that,too. It is very disturbing. i believe that there is something underground that is coming up to the surface and it’s only game is to destroy the human race.

      • Andrew the Prime Projection

        I think you’re remembering things with rose tinted bifocals… back in the day guys like Hoover just had to be a little more careful about who saw him in a dress. It’s not like you guys didn’t have gay people, they just had sad fake marriages instead of ridiculous pride parades. Im not saying which is worse, just saying you had plenty of bad stuff happening, just no internet to read about it all day…

    • looks to me that we may be returning to the “dark ages”………or some facsimile of modern day “dark ages”……..\

      societies every where seem to be turning upside down……..

  11. “It is precisely this dynamic – women good/men bad – that has destroyed the relationship between the sexes.”

    True. But now many of these men have the view of “men good/ women bad”. How is that any better? It’s not. Maybe we should just accept that some people are shitty and some are decent. And sometimes decent people can be shitty and once in a while a shitty person may surprise you. There is no special formula that will tell you male or female nature. Yes we have some generalities but you will always find variables if you keep an open mind. It’s when you are EXPECTING something that you always find it. Nobody can tell or show you differently because you made up your mind about them BEFORE YOU EVEN MET THEM. Let that sink in for a second because it’s 100% true! If you think that you can figure out an entire group of people by reading some books or articles online then you are just being lazy because you don’t want to put the work into actually getting to know someone. We are all imperfect. We are just human beings.

  12. The Honest Truth

    Well it is Fact that Most of the women of today are certainly Not marriage material at all since they have really Changed since the Good old days when back then Most women were so much Nicer and a lot Easier to meet which today they’re a Total Disaster.

  13. I would’ve been much happier in the 1950s when women were still sweet, feminine , soft, and loving creatures.

    I caught a little bit of The Sound Of Music last night and while the film really isn’t my cup of tea, I was reminded of how the women spoke back then and how they relinquised authority to the men. It was the essence of feminimity. I pray we have that again here in the West.

    What we have to live with now is a joke. The media and Gen X mothers who are more interested in being the daughter’s friend are to blame. Mothers today haven’t taught their daughters anything worthwhile and now we see the fruition of this: http://jesustribune.com/american-woman

    I doubt this will change with a new president so expect the horrible brainwashing commercials to continue.

    In fact, what we should probably be doing is constantly mentioning to women how much we hate feminists. Hell, pop into one of those women’s mags online from time to time and tell them all how they’re all being duped. If every guy did that, maybe that would have some kind of positive effect and begin to return things to normal.

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